'the gender gap is narrowing and more women are now getting involved in shady affairs' Why 'shady' affairs? Where did you get the notion that women are getting involved in 'shady' affairs? Just writing 'affairs' will do.

Great article. Infidelity is truly KILLING marriages around the world. I think the one of the biggest factors is what you mentioned with TRUST. Without trust in a marriage, it will not last long.

I remember telling someone a while back, "You have TAUGHT your wife not to trust you." This issue is not that the Wife simply won't or doesn't want to trust, many times the Husbands have TAUGHT their wives that they are not trustworthy.

Men, let's start re-building trust and start teaching our wives that they can trust us!

Great, thought-provoking article! It's true couples need to rebuild trust, but they also have to learn how to build protective relationship boundaries. The best relationship science says that what may be most critical is deep emotional repair through targeted expression and soothing of the emotional injury that cheating inflicts on the offended partner.