Man this is really wrong,I worked for a dating company back in 1981 before internet dating and it sounds like the same scam that they used there also,Its hard enough to find a decent man now without them being duped by this so called woman,Good luck to you men and i hope you can find some real women and real happiness.i joined a country site and all i have seen on the site are members that have not been around on there for over 8 months and i only lost less than $100 but it wont stop me looking for the right soul mate AND BEST FRIEND.