Answered by : chandni05
on Sat, 30 Jan 2010
I can understand and sympathize with you but I do not know if I can do much to help you. From what I understand it appears that your wife is suffering from insecurity. So try to give her that security. Convince her that she’s important to you and that nobody can take her place. Tell her that since your mother is equally important to you, you would be miserable leaving her. Do all of this in a polite way. Show her that you are hurt every time she hurts your mother. In turn your mother also can reach out to her to show her that she cares for her in the same way that her mother does. Remember there is no sound made with a single hand alone. I know that these things are all easily said than done but try to handle it delicately so that you do not hurt either of them.
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