My wife and I both have different gynocologists, and at our yearly checkups, the conversation went like this (literally for my wife)

"So do you have a boyfriend?"
-girlfriend actually
"Oh good, we don't need to worry about STDs then"

Later the doctor asked my wife how long we had been together, my doctor never did. There's something very wrong with the lack of information given to health care providers about making sure lesbians are keeping safe as well.