Divorce rates are high for one reason alone - contraception - with more women encouraged to sacrifice their virginity not for marriage but for pleasure. We have payback == divorce. The mind, understanding and spirit of a person is effected by the sexual union and the younger people have sex the greater the effect. One does not forget their sexual partners - that spiritual sexual union holds on until death and if a man has slept with 100 women and his wife with 100 men - we have 202 people jumping into the marriage bed. No wonder couple can't work it out. This is NOT a joke - its a fact. In the days of no contraception - we had more virgin marriages and hardly divorce to count now the number is becoming uncountable.