Well, you gotta love proof against those stereotypes. Another problem with guys saying no to sex is advice column responses. What I mean by that is if you ever find a column where a girl is wondering why her guy doesn't want to have sex, one of the reasons almost always is either because he's possibly cheating or is bored with her. As funny as it may sound, men are pressured by society to always wan sex otherwise they're not men. it's similar to how society pressures unrealistic looks on women.