I know it is such a difficult thing to go through, but you must know there is hope!Alot of women concieve healthy and happy babies after Ectopics. In my family my Grandmother, My Mother, My Aunt and My self all have had Ectopics. The doctors believe it may have to do with having a genitically smaller tube than normal. My Grandmother had 5 children after having her tube removed my aunty had 3 after hers and My Mum had one more after hers. I have just had my tube removed, its a big surgery and recovery but remember to be brave and be thankfull that they found it in time! in time I am sure you will be ready to try again you just need time to heal. My doctor told me in some cases women with tube defects have a higher chance of concieving once the defected tube is removed. So you never know! stay positive and be brave and you will make it through and these days we are lucky for the technology and support we have access to when it comes to ectopics! good luck xx